The scariest part of the nomad life

Have you ever had to start over? Maybe it was leaving a job that no longer felt right, packing up your life to move somewhere new, or rebuilding after an unexpected setback.

Starting over is one of the hardest things we do, because...well... It’s scary.

I know because I’ve been there.

I remember staring at my resignation letter, my hands trembling. I’d spent years climbing the corporate ladder, doing everything I was told would lead to success. And now, I was about to throw it all away—steady paychecks, stability, the safety of the familiar.

“What if this is a mistake?”
“What if I fail?”
“What if I regret it?”

The fear was paralyzing.

But deep down, I knew staying would cost me more than leaving ever could. That moment was one of the hardest of my life, but it wouldn’t be the last time I had to start over.

Why starting over is so scary

Starting over is one of the hardest things we face. Here’s why it feels so scary:

  • It’s unpredictable. You don’t know how things will turn out, and that uncertainty can feel overwhelming.
  • It challenges your identity. We often define ourselves by our careers or where we live. Starting over forces you to rewrite your story.
  • It’s emotionally exhausting. Even when you’re ready for a change, letting go of the familiar is never easy.

But here’s the thing: starting over might be scary, but it’s also where some of the most meaningful growth happens.

What can be learned from starting over

Looking back, every time I’ve started over, I’ve come out stronger. Here’s what I’ve learned:

  1. Fear is your compass. If something scares you, it usually means it’s worth exploring. The fear isn’t a stop sign—it’s a signal that you’re onto something important.
  2. You don’t need all the answers. When I left my job, I didn’t have a clear plan. But taking the first step helped me figure out the rest along the way.
  3. Letting go opens new doors. Every time I’ve said goodbye to the familiar, it’s made room for opportunities I never imagined.
  4. You’re stronger than you think. Fear doesn’t go away, but neither does your ability to face it.

Starting over hasn’t always been easy, but it’s been worth every moment.

Maybe, like I was, you’re on the edge of a leap right now, wondering if it’s the right move. If that’s you, I hope this reminds you that fear is normal—and you’re not alone.

So, go ahead, and start over if you must.


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Luca Mussari
Written by Luca Mussari

Digital nomad and co-founder of Freaking Nomads. After leaving a corporate job in London, I co-created Freaking Nomads to inspire others to embrace remote work and find happiness wherever they go.

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